Man Can Not Do It
No man can fix a broken heart. No man can restore a dead soul. No counselor can provide the comforting words to end the intense pain of a past decision. A popular saying, "time heals all wounds" does not apply to one who has experienced the wrenching pain of an abortion. No thing, no man can fix the relentless hurt of the thought of your lost child.
Too Big For You
You must look beyond yourself to find your healing. This is too big of a problem for you or a human counselor. Reach for your loving Creator. He loves you and misses you and He alone can help. He knows your name and is calling you back to Him. If you draw near to Him, He will draw near to you. He hears the angels sing and He desires to give you a future and hope. Once you realize your situation is too big for you to handle by yourself, you are closer to your goal, you are closer to your healing.
The Only Way
To be truly healed and have your joy restored, there is only one path. Many people know the real answer but are embarrassed or fear this leap of faith. Who believes in God today?
Take a look at the scriptures to the right. They will show you the power of your Great God. He can release you from the bondage of your thoughts and troubles. He desires excellent things for you and freedom and healing are just a taste of this excellence.
It starts with forgiveness. You must forgive yourself and know that your past is your past. It does not matter what you have done, you can be forgiven!
A loving God is able to do immeasurably more than all you ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within you. Rely on an amazing God to heal, restore you and resurrect your child to a much better life. Gain hope in a future that is bright and beautiful. One that is full of joy and goodness.
Portions of "Forgiveness" and "No Regrets" come from Kairos, When Eternity Steps into Time © 2009 Gateway Church, Southlake, TX 76092
Pure Healing
Thoughts of depression and sadness are destructive and must be replaced with healthy thougths of goodness and hope. A true relationship with your Creator is the start of your healing. If you are ready, study the following steps because they are designed to restore and heal where you have been broken. Select the bible address to reveal the scripture details.
1. Confess and repent.
2. Seeking godly sorrow.
3. Ask and receive forgiveness from God.
4. Extend forgiveness to yourself and others.
5. Submit to God in humility.
6. Pray for strongholds to be removed.
7. Ask Holy Spirit to purify your desires and cleanse your soul.
Complete Healing
Do the words, "what if..." enter your thoughts? Are you disappointed, unhappy or look back to your past with sad thoughts? Is regret crippling your future? Put your past where it belongs and look to your future with a full and complete healing with these steps and these steps:
1. Forgetting does not mean that you have no memory.
2. Deal with the disappointments of the past and move forward.
3. Grow up and mature in faith, understanding that nothing is impossible for God regardless of the past.
4. If you do not have a clear understanding of your past regret and how they are crippling you, ask Him!
5. Ask Holy Spirit to show you how He "sees" your regrets.
6. Come into agreement with God and commit your future to Him.
Be Comforted
Know that you are not alone. In a country with 50 millions abortions, you are not the only one to have made this decision. There are millions of people who are wounded from the act of abortion. These wounds are often hidden and lie deep beneath the surface of each person. To help expose these wounds, and bring complete healing, you will need to find support. There are many support groups designed to provide comfort and healing from abortion.
Find friends, connect with a support group, be consoled and reassured that you are loved. Find comfort from those who have been there and done that. Connect with others who are healthy, and who know a path towards true healing and comfort through Jesus Christ.
The Next Step
Now that we have laid out the path of healing and comfort, it is up to you to take the next step. Select the link to continue your journey towards a genuine, true and joyful healing! More >>
Healing Power, Now!
- God knows you and loves you. He has a great desire to heal you! Glorify the Lord, acknowledge Him and your healing will arrive quickly.
Isaiah 61:1-3"The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon Me, Because the LORD has anointed Me To preach good tidings to the poor; He has sent Me to heal the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to the captives, And the opening of the prison to those who are bound; 2 To proclaim the acceptable year of the LORD, And the day of vengeance of our God; To comfort all who mourn, 3 To console those who mourn in Zion, To give them beauty for ashes, The oil of joy for mourning, The garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; That they may be called trees of righteousness, The planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified."
No Tears, A Hope for the Future
- The Great Comforter promises to help you in your anguish. Many people do not consider the resurrection, a future time when those who have died will come back to life. Christ was the first to be resurrected and all others will follow.
"Jeremiah 31:15-17 This is what the LORD says: "A cry is heard in Ramah - anguish and bitter weeping. Rachel weeps for her children, refusing to be comforted - her children are gone." 16 But now this is what the LORD says: "Do not weep any longer, for I will reward you," says the LORD. "Your children will come back to you from the distant land of the enemy. 17 There is hope for your future," says the LORD. "Your children will come again to their own land."
You Are Not Your Past
- Your were made to be free and experience a life of joy. To find your freedom, seek the Lord with all your heart. You will find Him... promise!
"Jeremiah 29:11-13 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope. 12 Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you. 13 And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart."
A Time to Heal ...
- ...and a time to gather stones. Is it time for you to gather stones now?
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Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven:
a time to be born, And a time to die; A time to plant, And a time to pluck what is planted;
a time to kill, a time to heal; A time to break down, And a time to build up;
a time to weep, And a time to laugh; A time to mourn, And a time to dance;
a time to cast away stones, And a time to gather stones; A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
a time to gain, And a time to lose; A time to keep, And a time to throw away;
a time to tear, And a time to sew; A time to keep silence, And a time to speak;
a time to love, And a time to hate; A time of war, And a time of peace.
Gather Your Stones
- Be a part of something bigger that you, help build God's Memorial by adding your stone. Select this link to make a physical step towards your healing. More >>
Find Comfort
- Associate with others who will give soothing, healing, reassuring words to provide you comfort. find these people and stay close to them to make your healing complete.
"2 Corinthians 1:3-4 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God."
- Then one day from the comfort you have received, you will be able to give to those suffering a similar situation. You will be able to help others heal. You will be able to pass it on!